This page gives you access to just a few of the resources available to 3RO clients.

The downloads are free, and my Kindle ebooks are available from Amazon for less than the price of a cup of coffee.


And please send me your reviews.  I would love to hear from you.


What is life coachingWhat is Life-Coaching?

This is a question I am often asked so, I’ve produced a short booklet to hopefully give you an insight into what life-coaching is about.  For me it’s grounded in the 3RO of coaching:  Respect, Rapport, Resources and Outcomes.

Each life-coach has their own area(s) of expertise and preferred methods of working.  It is therefore important that you take time to find the life-coach that will work with you, to help you achieve the results your are looking for.

It’s only eight (printer-friendly) pages in all, but includes thirty thought-provoking questions for you to ask yourself.  Give yourself the gift of taking some time to think about how you would answer.

My Etsy shop – LittleThings3RO                                                          

If decluttering isn’t one of your aims, why not browse my Etsy shop?

My shop will include eclectic items of my own design/manufacture, because creativity makes me happy.

Delivery times will depend on whether it’s already in existence, or a design which I need made to order from a production partner.

If you have a question about any item, do not hesitate to contact me, either through this website, or via the Etsy shop.


Win/Win/Win by recommending 3RO online courses and coaching sessions

Whenever a new client tells me that they are buying one of my online courses or coaching packages because of a recommendation, I will pass 25% of the purchase price to the lovely person who recommended that new client to me.

I will make the payment either by direct bank transfer or to your Paypal account, whichever you prefer.

Alternatively, if you do not wish to receive cash by either of those options, I will give you a credit of DOUBLE that amount towards any of my online courses, or coaching from me.

It’s win/win/win because:

  • it helps me to spread the word about my offers and connect with more clients;
  • you can choose the cash or credit benefit of your choice; and
  • more clients will benefit from being able to find me.

You don’t even have to sign up to be a part of this initiative, as I’m not a huge fan of accumulating email addresses and, despite all marketing advice to the contrary, I don’t issue marketing emails to people on my mailing list.

If you do recommend me to someone, it will help me to pass on your benefits if you can let me know, either via Facebook, my website or by email.

I hope you like this idea as much as I do and I look forward to hearing from you.

Life-Coaching Comfort Zone Your Comfort-Zone and How to Use It?

I was recently asked some questions about  the “Comfort-Zone” and so I thought I would put together a short explanatory booklet.

One lady who spoke to me she felt constantly pressured to “get out” of her comfort-zone.

Your comfort-zone is a precious resource.  Enjoy it.  Protect it.  Use it!

And don’t let anyone bully you to “get out” of it.

3RO life-coaching treasure huntTreasure Hunt

Have fun with this simple yet effective exercise.

A must have for your self-care tool-kit.

Just follow the instructions on the free pdf download.

Activity CompassThe 3RO Activity Compass

This is a wonderfully flexible and imaginative process, designed by me specifically to help you with prioritisation of your  goals or options.  This download will guide you through the process, step by step, and enable you to find clarity from all the choices which currently seem so confusing.

Alternatively, if you would like one-to-one assistance in prioritising all your options and reaching your goals , contact me.  All my conversations start with a FREE, no-obligation, 45 minute “Exploration Call” to simply talk about what you’re searching for.

Make sure every step you take towards your goal is in the right direction.

FBW with borderFREE Members only Facebook group “Fabulous Blooming Women“

Apply to join as a member at

This is a support group for ladies who, like myself, are in the full bloom of our lives (e.g.40+), are looking to make a change, or just want to swap ideas and provide mutual.

You don’t have to provide proof of fabulousness to join. This group will remind you how fabulous you are, especially at times when you have forgotten. 

Retirement UK - dinosuars - NLFREE Members only Facebook group “Retirement UK“

Apply to join as a member at and you can join in discussions, or ask any UK retirement related questions which you may have.

If we can’t give you an answer we will at least point you in the right direction to find out more.   It’s a friendly and informal forum.  Join us today!

My first Vision BoardCreate Your Own Vision Board

Download my free guide to create your own vision board to keep you focused on where you want to be.  By imagining the future you want, you will gain clarity of purpose and alignment of your energies, to move you towards your goal.

You can go digital and create a board or your computer, or go messy, with crayons, pens, paper, glue and anything else that grabs your imagination.  Either way it’s a lot of fun, whether you do it on your own or with friends.  And, of course, if you prefer one-to-one guidance, this is an exercise I often enjoy with my coaching clients.

Decluttering GuideDownload my FREE Decluttering Guide

Removing and avoiding clutter in the home and/or office provides you with the freedom of more physical and mental space, to move, think, breathe and grow.

Download my decluttering guide (using the button below) as a first step and then, if you would like assistance in making this fundamental change to your lifestyle, contact me for further support.

My “Retirement UK” Kindle ebook, available from Amazon for less than the cost of a cup of coffee.  Retirement UK

It’s the story of my own retirement from corporate life as a pensions manager, and my subsequent initial adventures in my “Third Age”.

If you are approaching retirement, or just retired, this is a must-read for you.  And, of course, if you would like coaching with planning for how to spend your retirement year, you can contact me to book a FREE, no-obligation “Exploration Call” to talk about your future.

My “Six Weeks to Success!” Kindle e-book from Amazon. Six Weeks to SUCCESS (188 x 300)

Six weeks is an ideal time-frame to achieve high-impact, short-term goals.  It’s neither too long nor too short.

This little ebook will inspire you with 42 daily posts and lots of guidance and ideas on how to sets goals, and how to achieve them.

For less than the price of a cup of coffee, to start changing your life, how can you resist?

(Also available as a paperback work-book.)

Wheel of Life (188 x 300)The Wheel of Life

Many coaches use this simple tool as a starting point in helping clients to assess their overall initial  situation.

The wheel can enable you to identify what’s working for you currently and the areas where you want to focus your attention to be able to move forward.

Choose the 8 most important areas of your life, consider how satisfied you are in each of those areas and give them a rating on a scale of 1 to 10 on the central spokes of the wheel (where the rim is 10 and the centre is 0).  A completly happy person would produce a fully rounded, large circle.  In reality, almost everyone produces a wonky wheel indicating the areas in need of our attention.

Try it on your own, or contact me for one-to-one coaching, which always starts with a FREE, no-obligation 45-minute “Exploration Call”.

Download a free, pretty “Doodly Heart” template

“Doodly Heart” is a simple exercise aimed at raising your spirits. Doodly Heart
For this you will need the fresh peel of two lemons, two large candles, a sprig of lilac and….. No, I’m only kidding! 😊 All you need is a pen/pencil and piece of A4 (or A5) paper to doodle/draw,
Start by drawing a large heart shape, or printing off the pretty template here. 
Take some time, to think of everything in your life today that you are grateful for.  (Admittedly, on my lowest days, it can take a major effort to get started but, once you do begin, you will find that the positivity starts to flow.)
As positive thoughts/images come to your mind, write or draw them inside the heart-shape on your paper. Literally, fill your heart as your thoughts fill your mind, reminding yourself of all the good things you have in your life today.
By the time I’ve finished (sometimes even after just 10 minutes) I feel more positive.
Of course, if you’re in the mood and you have the time, you can spend as long as you like on this.
I’ve pulled together an idealised version (here)on Canva to demonstrate. My actual hand-drawn Doodly Hearts are a lot quicker to do and far less neat than this, but I found that even doing this exercise on the computer was fun and uplifting.
Give it a go!