3RO – Life-coaching for you!
24 January 2021 – You deserve love and respect.
I constantly talk to my life-coaching clients about the power of the language they choose to use: the words they choose, and how they deliver those words – tone, volume, pace, etc.
And how we communicate with ourselves is just as important as how we communicate with others.
I suspect that working so much with language has made me more sensitive to its power.
This morning, I couldn’t help but overhear the tale-end of a couple’s vicious verbal argument, before they each stomped off in separate directions. It made me feel horrible, listening to their words, but imagine how their two little daughters felt. Shoulders slumped, heads down, sad faces staring at the ground, listening as Mum and Dad shouted obscenities at each other. What lessons are those young girls are learning?
If you are in a toxic relationship and you choose to stay, ok, it’s your life to waste. But if you’ve brought kids into this world you have taken on a responsibility. Either find a way to live together peacefully as good parents, or move on – for your children mainly, for yourself too, but also for your community, who don’t want their environment marred by the toxicity you are creating.
We all deserve to be happy. Don’t accept anything less.
You can choose to make it happen, for you and the people you love.
You need professional help, here are a coupke of links:
You can use some of the free resources on my website to start your journey.